About
| About |
I am
an Advocate...
…and a proud Gen-Xer who grew up in Southwestern Ontario, Canada, during the 1970s and 1980s. I was born in Scotland, and my family moved to Canada when I was just two years old. I have lived here ever since, but now just on the opposite end of the province. What began in a small town, has taken me through decades of change—from bouncer to security professional to IT specialist. Along the way, I became a husband and father of two amazing sons. I’ve learned that life rarely goes according to plan, but the detours often lead exactly where you need to be. These days, I’m reflecting on the resilience of our generation and the unexpected wisdom that comes from simply showing up.
~ Dealing with exceptions
My oldest son CJ has Down syndrome, and he's been my greatest teacher. My younger son is just as extraordinary, and somehow, he manages to keep us all grounded. We don't always get it right, and we're still figuring it out as we go. We show up for each other one day at a time, and with just enough humour to keep things in perspective.
Family is at the heart of everything I do. I am a husband of 30 years and a proud father of two incredible sons. I would have none of it without my wife.
Why "The Gen-X Armchair?"
The name “The Gen-X Armchair” captures the spirit of relaxed reflection and hard-earned perspective. It speaks to a generation that’s seen the world shift from analog to digital, from mixtapes to algorithms, and now sits back—armchair-style—to make sense of it all. This blog is a space for thoughtful commentary, personal stories, and cultural reflections from a Gen-X point of view—part nostalgia, part observation, always grounded in experience.
The armchair is where I found new perspective.
What to Expect
This blog was born from a simple realization: Generation X is the bridge generation. We are the last to remember life before the internet and the first to navigate a world dominated by it. We grew up as latchkey kids, riding bikes until the streetlights came on, and now we find ourselves as the “sandwich generation,” caring for aging parents while raising children who face a world far more complex than the one we inherited.
You’ll find a variety of content that I hope resonates. From personal anecdotes about growing up in a different era to the unique challenges and joys of raising a child with special needs, The Gen-X Armchair is a space where we can connect over our shared experiences. Join me as we navigate the rich tapestry of life, reflecting on the past, understanding the present, and looking forward to the future. Welcome to The Gen-X Armchair.